brucemillar
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Parked outside the local supermarket in the 'Pickup & Drop' waiting on my wife. I catch site of a young (4 or 5 year old) beautiful blonde girl, who has a smile bigger than her face. She is straining to push a trolley into the adjacent trolley bay, but obviously enjoying her task.
Just as she gets the trolley into the bay and retrieves the token, I her a really loud angry female shout (and I mean really loud). The shout is along the lines of 'GET OVER HEAR AND GET IN THE F*ing CAR. Everybody turns to look, including me, at a large mixed race, young woman, who now runs and grabs the child by the arm, forcibly lifting her feet off the ground, she dragged the child over the crossing with her feet scraping along the ground, still shouting GET IN THE F*ing CAR!!!. When they both reached the F*ing car, she threw the child in the back seat in a manner that must have hurt her, it is impossible for that not to have hurt, and slammed the door.
I sat and watched it all. I wanted to get out and intervene and I didn't.
Now it haunts me, I cannot think of anything else, all day and night and now again his morning. I feel terrible for the little girl to whom this must be life, and for my own lack of action to intervene and, at least say to the adult, "stop it, this is wrong".
I know it's 'what goes on'. I know it is irrational of me, but it has really got under my skin, to the point that all I can see is that child's sweet innocent (not over-dramatising here) smile and the look of terror as she was dragged along with her shoes scuffing the ground. It makes me want to weep. But it also makes me want to go back find the woman and drag her along.
Feel free to laugh, snigger comment at my weakness. But it was horrible to witness and I am ashamed that as an adult I did nothing.
Just saying.
Just as she gets the trolley into the bay and retrieves the token, I her a really loud angry female shout (and I mean really loud). The shout is along the lines of 'GET OVER HEAR AND GET IN THE F*ing CAR. Everybody turns to look, including me, at a large mixed race, young woman, who now runs and grabs the child by the arm, forcibly lifting her feet off the ground, she dragged the child over the crossing with her feet scraping along the ground, still shouting GET IN THE F*ing CAR!!!. When they both reached the F*ing car, she threw the child in the back seat in a manner that must have hurt her, it is impossible for that not to have hurt, and slammed the door.
I sat and watched it all. I wanted to get out and intervene and I didn't.
Now it haunts me, I cannot think of anything else, all day and night and now again his morning. I feel terrible for the little girl to whom this must be life, and for my own lack of action to intervene and, at least say to the adult, "stop it, this is wrong".
I know it's 'what goes on'. I know it is irrational of me, but it has really got under my skin, to the point that all I can see is that child's sweet innocent (not over-dramatising here) smile and the look of terror as she was dragged along with her shoes scuffing the ground. It makes me want to weep. But it also makes me want to go back find the woman and drag her along.
Feel free to laugh, snigger comment at my weakness. But it was horrible to witness and I am ashamed that as an adult I did nothing.
Just saying.