Hi thanks for your detailed reply, if a bolt has failed and released tension in one point on the head gasket would you expect that to be picked up on a head gasket test where gases are checked in the coolant expansion tank? My car passed the head gasket test?
I will be sending the oil off for analysis to see if it definitely had coolant in it (which I highly suspect it does). This issue then becomes on whether it's leaked through the head gasket or somewhere else eg oil cooler. I'm hoping the head gasket test pass is good news but it's been suggested that this engine could have passed the head gasket test and still be leaking which I don't understand?
Were you driving the car when the low coolant light came up? I don't want to sound condescending but is the coolant level sensor working OK? If you think you may have over filled the oil, then it could also be a failing water pump, localised overheating when on a run and then when you park the car up and stop the engine the pressure caps lifts slightly dumping excess pressure and ebulated coolant on your drive. Any unusual drones from the belt driven accessories?
The leakage from the headbolt issue if its only one or two wont show up on a compression or combustion byproduct test unless using much higher pressures than the AA tech did. As I said, after driving and the engine starts to cool down from operating temp, it will likely be a capillary action drawing coolant from the cooling space across the gasket and into the combustion spaces due the head and block dissipating heat and contracting it different rates. It will steadily get worse if indeed this is what is happening.
Oil coolers are not known to be a weak link on these engines, but its not to say it doesn't happen.