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That's great that you arent triggered so much now @John , can I ask what helped you?
Respect John you’ve through the Ringer mate so glad your feeling brighter bud
I believe CBT only works in cases where there is a cause which can be discovered, talked about, vented and dealt with.
As I said before, I dealt with some of my issues by meditating, my mind was such a busy place from the minute I woke to the time I went to sleep. I found with meditation I was able to just note my negative thoughts and let them go (a concept Id struggled with for years) but with daily meditation I have been able to let a lot go and free space for more positive thoughts. Some simple situations can still be difficult and I do go into panic mode (still working on those) but others Ive seen positive results. I had to have root canal treatment, I had no idea what was involved before I went (just aswell I didnt google it). I used my meditation and was so relaxed I fell asleep. The dentist said he'd never seen anyone fall asleep whilst having root canal treatment. I was actually snoring apparently. Ive used it for mri's too when up until a few years ago that would have been very difficult for me.If anyone is interested in the meditation I follow, maybe best to PM me (Im not sure forum rules allow me to promote it).
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I had several months of doctors and testing for light headedness and dizzy spells when mine started back around 2012, which has now given me a healthy dose of white coat syndrome! It was actually a random link whilst searching for heart attack information that sent me to a nomorepanic forum and I discovered there were hundreds of people with all manor of "real" health issues caused by anxiety!
Worth a look if anyone is worried about a physical condition, I'm not suggesting to avoid the standard medical testing but have a read of some of the experiences on there as it always helps to overcome something if you understand it.
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Its not until you talk to people that you realise just how much it affects people. Like @John said you keep it well hidden until something , and it can be the smallest and simplest of things can just tip you over the edge (sorry for bad term) because all the little things have been pushed down inside eventually have to go somewhere!
My brother had a terrible time and we had no idea as he hid it so well. People say to me, surely you'd know, but you dont, we are good at keeping it inside. If you were to meet him, you wouldn't think anything would trouble him, He is 6.4, heavily tattooed, piercings, big biker guy. But a few years ago he was a completely different person, he became just a shell, my brother looked the same but wasn't the same person inside. His journey through the mental health system was different to mine as he took the 'emergency' route in (I'll not go into detail but just to say witnessing the lows that someone can go to is eye opening). Time inside a secure unit and quite drastic treatment has brought him back to his 'normal' self.
As I said before, I dealt with some of my issues by meditating, my mind was such a busy place from the minute I woke to the time I went to sleep. I found with meditation I was able to just note my negative thoughts and let them go (a concept Id struggled with for years) but with daily meditation I have been able to let a lot go and free space for more positive thoughts. Some simple situations can still be difficult and I do go into panic mode (still working on those) but others Ive seen positive results. I had to have root canal treatment, I had no idea what was involved before I went (just aswell I didnt google it). I used my meditation and was so relaxed I fell asleep. The dentist said he'd never seen anyone fall asleep whilst having root canal treatment. I was actually snoring apparently. Ive used it for mri's too when up until a few years ago that would have been very difficult for me.If anyone is interested in the meditation I follow, maybe best to PM me (Im not sure forum rules allow me to promote it).
Some truly amazing and very emotional stories guys, really appreciate you sharing.
That's one hell of time you've had John - good to see you come through it.
I've never had CBT but am aware of its origins - NLP (neuro linguistic programming). Very simplistically it deals with taking charge of your 'inner dialogue' - the voice in your head that is the running commentary of your life. What goes on there can have profound effects and small changes can bring massive benefits.
A variation on the theme is phrases that can bring us back to sense. A useful one a friend imparted to me is useful for those who, with the prospect of some event or other (which may or may not happen) then extrapolate all sorts of ensuing crises emanating from it and drag themselves into a vortex of panic in the process - just stop. And say 'hasn't actually happened'. Try it - the effect is way beyond the three simple words.
There are lots more little expressions (we all have them anyway) but some have use way beyond what may be imagined. Taking control over that voice in our heads is important. Our unconscious mind hears all of it, stores it, and looks for opportunities to make real what interests that voice. 'Be careful what you wish for' summarises it reasonably well. Self fulfilling prophecy is its realisation.
The meditation I follow is Meditation and Sleep Made Simple - Headspace. You can access certain areas of it for free or subscribe to get more options. Ive used it for over 2 years now, and worked through the different specific area sessions and now do the daily meditation. There are other meditation apps but I found this one worked for me. I also do self hypnosis.
I think its always good to hear what others use to help.
I hate talking on the phone, especially when I don't know what to expect. I tried emailing EAP but they said I have to phone them for initial assessment.If the CBT is free what have you got to lose? it's not going to hurt or put you back in anyway,
I hate talking on the phone, especially when I don't know what to expect. I tried emailing EAP but they said I have to phone them for initial assessment.
My journey to Mercedes was similar @Eddy77. The marriage I was in wasn't a good one (could have a whole different thread on that!) And I wasn't allowed alot of things for myself. I'd always wanted a Mercedes, didn't matter which one tbh it would have just been something for me. So when I was finally divorced I went to the local car dealers and asked if he could get me a Mercedes . As I said it didn't matter which one, so when he called a few days later to say he had found one , I was so excited. I saw it had a test drive . That was funny because when I got in I said where's the handbrake? He said you you've never driven a Mercedes then. I loved it and bought it and then found my way to you guys and haven't looked back.
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