As I alluded to a little over a month ago , my mum passed away at the end of June .
I've been away from my home town for a number of decades , but back there to make funeral arrangements and to start clearing out my mum's house with a view to putting it on the market and sharing the proceeds between myself and my sisters .
During the process , I met up with an old school friend , who had been one of my best mates , and he in turn put me back in touch with this lady ( now 60 years old , as am I ) who had been a childhood sweetheart since we went to primary school together from age 5 . We haven't seen each other for more than 40 years ; both of us have gone in different directions in which life has taken us , and we each are happily settled in good relationships with our respective families and partners .
While nothing untoward is ever likely to happen we have exchanged a number of emails and fond memories , and I've proposed to meet up - just for a coffee and a chat .
Is this terribly wrong - or is it fraught with danger ?
We were both 16 when we last met , and she was the love of my life back then , now we are both 60 , and settled in happy relationships with children ...
I have no intention on cheating on my partner , who I love dearly , and I'm sure it is the same on the other side ...
I've been away from my home town for a number of decades , but back there to make funeral arrangements and to start clearing out my mum's house with a view to putting it on the market and sharing the proceeds between myself and my sisters .
During the process , I met up with an old school friend , who had been one of my best mates , and he in turn put me back in touch with this lady ( now 60 years old , as am I ) who had been a childhood sweetheart since we went to primary school together from age 5 . We haven't seen each other for more than 40 years ; both of us have gone in different directions in which life has taken us , and we each are happily settled in good relationships with our respective families and partners .
While nothing untoward is ever likely to happen we have exchanged a number of emails and fond memories , and I've proposed to meet up - just for a coffee and a chat .
Is this terribly wrong - or is it fraught with danger ?
We were both 16 when we last met , and she was the love of my life back then , now we are both 60 , and settled in happy relationships with children ...
I have no intention on cheating on my partner , who I love dearly , and I'm sure it is the same on the other side ...