davidjpowell
MB Enthusiast
Hi
Trying to get some practical advice on my current sittuation.
My partner has a 12 yr old from a previous relationship. Up until now he has lived with us and his dad has reluctantly paid maintenance for him. This has been saved for his future and I have effectively paid for everything for the past five years (which I am quite happy to have done so, please do not misunderstand).
Due to a number of issues over the past 3 months he has now gone to live with his dad. We have grave reversations about this, and whether it is good for him, but we felt that we could only put off the inevitable for so long and the strain of constant rows was affecting our 3 year old.
His dad is an agressive bully, who in the past has attacked both my and partenr and me, although 200 miles now reduces the risk to verbal and text attacks. He is now asking me for maintenance. My partner does not work, so her only income is Child Allowance for our daughter. I pay for everything else.
I am hoping that I am right that the CSA could not take my income into account? I really resent his assumption that I should pay to bring up his son!
If anyone has any information that would help I would be grateful!
David
Trying to get some practical advice on my current sittuation.
My partner has a 12 yr old from a previous relationship. Up until now he has lived with us and his dad has reluctantly paid maintenance for him. This has been saved for his future and I have effectively paid for everything for the past five years (which I am quite happy to have done so, please do not misunderstand).
Due to a number of issues over the past 3 months he has now gone to live with his dad. We have grave reversations about this, and whether it is good for him, but we felt that we could only put off the inevitable for so long and the strain of constant rows was affecting our 3 year old.
His dad is an agressive bully, who in the past has attacked both my and partenr and me, although 200 miles now reduces the risk to verbal and text attacks. He is now asking me for maintenance. My partner does not work, so her only income is Child Allowance for our daughter. I pay for everything else.
I am hoping that I am right that the CSA could not take my income into account? I really resent his assumption that I should pay to bring up his son!
If anyone has any information that would help I would be grateful!
David