brucemillar
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What to do.
Following fairly recent major life changing surgery, I am now well and back at work. Whilst there is absolutely no doubting that I look well (outrageously handsome). Internally life has changed and will take years to recover. This means that on occasions I really do have to sit down or risk falling over in a heap.
I have the joy of using Network South East Trains from Kent to London. Getting seat is not a given and I am happy to chance it with everybody else. On a few occasions, having managed to get a seat I have been aware of the gaze of other passengers who obviously think that I should give up my seat for them.
Now were it a frail or obviously distressed passenger then there is no question I would do so. But I feel genuinely that in my case now my need is greater than those looking at me and thinking "give up your seat sonny boy"
What to do? I refuse to be defined by my surgery and would hate others to judge me by it. Equally I am genuinely, at times in need of that seat.
Should I just man up and go into my own world and stop being concerned about the feelings of others?
What to do.
Following fairly recent major life changing surgery, I am now well and back at work. Whilst there is absolutely no doubting that I look well (outrageously handsome). Internally life has changed and will take years to recover. This means that on occasions I really do have to sit down or risk falling over in a heap.
I have the joy of using Network South East Trains from Kent to London. Getting seat is not a given and I am happy to chance it with everybody else. On a few occasions, having managed to get a seat I have been aware of the gaze of other passengers who obviously think that I should give up my seat for them.
Now were it a frail or obviously distressed passenger then there is no question I would do so. But I feel genuinely that in my case now my need is greater than those looking at me and thinking "give up your seat sonny boy"
What to do? I refuse to be defined by my surgery and would hate others to judge me by it. Equally I am genuinely, at times in need of that seat.
Should I just man up and go into my own world and stop being concerned about the feelings of others?