I understand what you mean, our baby is due Tuesday 8th November and women love bumps and those who ask before the hands on are ok with my wife.... on one particular occasion I had to laugh

we where out together and people stopped us and asked about the baby.they asked my daughter she's 5 are you having a brother or a sister

she knows its a brother and tells them

...oh they say that's nice,..do you wounder what he will be like....... he will be just like my other brother she says...oh looking round,

and where is he ...oh he's over there parking the car :bannana: ...well the looks I get ..and that's a big gap..... yes and so 19,5,and yet to be