However serious the subject there is always a place for humour as far as I am concerned. The more serious the subject the blacker I like it. It doesn't mean that you can't have a serious exchange at the same time.
If you knew the jokes doctors made about patients you would probably be horrified......anybody who knows what a diagnosis of JPFROG is will know what I mean
.Just an observation - that Donza deleted his post almost immediately - certainly before anyone replied - so all this thread has been based on an assumption that Donza has a drink problem
Personally deleting the content in that way is not helpful - but quite why people are sharing such personal and private information when it might not be necessary or appreciated is beyond me. All credit to everyone for wanting to help - but I fear it might be totally wasted and that this thread should really only go to one place - the bin.
I think you miss one of points of forums - that the replies are often of benefit to people other than the OP.
It is a subject that is very topical and like all the OT threads I'm sure there are plenty who have an interest. I suspect anybody who drinks alcohol has asked themselves at one stage or another whether they drink too much or whether they are doing themselves harm. People are clearly interested in the subject and therefore the contribution of the original poster isn't strictly relevant.
Anyway, by replying you clearly felt that you had a contribution to make that would be of interest
Just an observation - that Donza deleted his post almost immediately - certainly before anyone replied - so all this thread has been based on an assumption that Donza has a drink problem
Personally deleting the content in that way is not helpful - but quite why people are sharing such personal and private information when it might not be necessary or appreciated is beyond me. All credit to everyone for wanting to help - but I fear it might be totally wasted and that this thread should really only go to one place - the bin.
ETA - an observation the OP has been on the forum this afternoon yet has not seen it appropriate to respond to this thread -
) Never had any blistering rows/fights through either. I drink arguably more than I should . . . TBC. Wor lass is moaning I'm 'On the bl00dy computer again' 
Believe me when I say there is a better way. You are a sensible mature person that over the years we have all come to know and RESPECT.
I have been away from the forum for ages basically because I have been working stupid hours and I don't get time to post anymore. I have lost nearly 2 stone since the middle of August purely down to the fact that I dont have time to sleep, I dont have time to eat but I am drinking between 1 and 2 bottles of wine every night.
I have been getting between 6 and 2 hours sleep a night since August and to be honest I am like a zombie and the only way I can unwind is to drink.
Work is a huge problem at the minute, my family life is non existent and my wife hates me so drinking is my little way out of it all.
Believe me if there was another way I would take it but at the moment there isn't.
Yes I do have a drink problem and next week my life gets a whole lot easier so I will address the problem then.
Everyone has just been waiting for me to have a breakdown and to be honest the type of person I am and the drinking has I think saved me.
I now feel sorry for people who become alcoholics etc whereas before I would probably ridiculed them.
Oh yeah and next week I'll probably be back on here more annoying certain people
