Baby D is 18 months old now and since Christmas has been suffering with some reciurring health problems, which have worsened since March. He's not been sleeping well as a result and last week in particular it was pretty bad - Mrs D and I quite literally barely slept. We have private healthcare and so with a referral from the GP we made an appointment to see a specialist and the appointment was this morning. Normally I'd always be there for hospital appointments of any kind, but couldn't make it today. Without going into details, the appointment was for my son, but unfortunately the specialist made a number of inappropriate comments about Mrs D that her feel very uncomfortable, so much so that she told him that he was being inappropriate (it must have been bad for her to say somthing). We're doing nothing immediately, but the big question is what do we do next? Who is the right person or organisation we should complain to regarding his inappropriate comments? The specialist himself, the (private) hospital, the private healthcare provider, our GP, or someone else? All thoughts welcomed.