My understanding is that when you turn the dipped lights on, the stay on until you turn them off again, at the main light switch.
The stalk stick is a 4 way lever switch, up/down for the indicators and in/out for the high beam/flash high beam, the stalk switch doesn’t play any part in switching the dipped beam ON or OFF, in other words the dipped beam is on all the time when switched on at the main light switch, and stay on, with or without the high beam/ flasher beam being used.
Do the fog lights work ok, front and back, and the tell tail orange light, when the back fog light is on?
Take note of the part numbers on the long relays at the back of the fuse box, useful to identify what you got.
A rusty/bad earth for the dipped beams could also explain the fault, if the fuses are definitely not causing the fault.
Double check those old type fuses, the have a bad reputation see…
Check ALL fuse boxes - Mercedes-Benz Forum ...American car so fuse box is on opposite side of car.
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