You might also want to change the PCV hose/pipe, which might cut down on the amount of oily vapour that is passing the valve. I've been looking at this type of general issue way too much over the past month, and the PCV pipe/valve should really be considered a 60k consumable item on the OM642.
As it turns out, when I said in post #10 mine wasn't oil cooler seals.... it turns out that a well respected independent specialist thinks it's almost certainly oil cooler seals

Oil cooler seals tend to go from minor to horrific in a short space of time. Mine is currently still a minor leak, but I'm speccing up the job at the moment, but given the time of the year I'm leaning towards paying for it.
I've got oil creeping up the intakes. I also had the 'green o-ring' not seated properly that seals the turbo outlet to the long metal pipe on the top of the engine. That has also resulted in blow-over of oily residue on the top of the engine.
I also had a conversation with someone this week who has a lot of experience with these, and they suggested that it might not be down to the seals at all, but rather due to heat cycling an inevitable micro movement of the oil cooler against the block (due to expansion and contraction) whereby tiny amounts of oil and gunk get trapped between the mating surfaces. This dries over time, and it then compounded by more tiny tiny amounts of oil and gunk finding its way in, and effectively 'jacking' the cooler away from the block very very slightly. This then causes the leak, and no amount of seal redesign will change this. The conclusion: the oil cooler seals might be a regular 60-100k issue. A lot of these cars are not going to be reaching or exceeding the 150-200k mile mark, so multiple oil cooler seal changes wouldn't register.
There's some good links here
2012 E350Cdi 100K Mile Service | Engine
Also, FCP Euro show 3rd party seal kits for this job, and list out all the Mercedes part numbers. That's a good starter if you are doing it yourself as to what seals you will need.
If you've had oil leaking down (on to or in the vicinity of the swirl flap motor), it's probably worth while replacing the swirl flap motor (£150) whilst you're in there.
The other thing to consider is getting a new oil cooler at the same time. It has been know that specialists have done this job, only to find the leak persists and it was a tiny crack in the cooler.
Good luck. Keep us updated
