I am sure you have probably read through the forums and found a solution...Daughters laptop has died, so got her a new one.
She wants to transfer her music on her touch to iTunes.
Bit itunes wont let her as she didn't get it from them , ant ideas of a good get round program?
Also remember have iTunes installed first!The music sync is one way -computer to ipod. The only exception is itunes purchases: Without syncing: File>Transfer Purchases.
The music came from your computer in the first place, so it should still be there and you should always maintain a backup copy.
If the music is not on your computer, then use your backup copy to put it back.
Read this guide see if this help you: How to Transfer Music from iPod touch to iTunes