Looking at those pics…
Plug it in with the red cable at the fused side of the fusebox - i.e. with the original fuse out, the red cable goes to the ‘dead’ side ofthe original fuse. If that makes sense.
Original vehicle fuse plugs in to the two connectors that are furthest from the red wire.
New circuit fuse plugs into the connectors that are nearest to the red wire.
N.B. Those two add a fuse connectors are different and can add to the confusion.