This is my logic:
In most cases you can drive on a puncture and get to a tyre shop, as long as you carry a tyre inflator and re-inflate the punctured tyre. However, the benefit of runflats is that you don't have to stop on the hard shoulder of a busy motorway at night in pi$$ing rain to re-inflate the punctured tyre.
Tyre blowouts are almost always the result of an overheating tyre due to low air pressure. Keep checking the air pressure and you won't have blowout. Runflats won't help you here anyway.
A tyre being shred as result of an impact with a pothole or foreign object is indeed a problem, but, again, having runflats wont help.
On balance - runflats are not worth it.
BTW, I believe that the manufacturers' motivation for fitting runflats as standard came from trying to save weight (and improve fuel efficiency and reduce emissions for the standard testing), in the olden days when not carrying a spare tyre was unheard of.