Just get a carbon wrap over the bonnet!
On a serious note, rather than get all worked up and stressing over a conversation which hasn't taken place yet, I would contact the seller in person and explain the issue.
The dealer may not be aware themselves and do all they can help to help resolve the issue, so all your research and stress was in vain. After all the previous owner may have had this done and then 'got rid', in the same manner that you are being advised to do on here!
On the flip side, the dealer may not want to listen and fob you off at which point I would seek advice regarding your rights as a consumer, again plenty of good advice on here.
Either way, if it is the car you adore (whilst I appreciate it has taken the shine off ownership experience) and searched long and hard to find, get the bonnet resprayed by a reputable bodyshop, put it behind you and enjoy the car
(Getting rid, you would have to have it repaired anyway before selling and losing even more money, or trade it as it is, at an even bigger loss I would imagine! Now that for me is a lose/lose situation)
On a serious note, rather than get all worked up and stressing over a conversation which hasn't taken place yet, I would contact the seller in person and explain the issue.
The dealer may not be aware themselves and do all they can help to help resolve the issue, so all your research and stress was in vain. After all the previous owner may have had this done and then 'got rid', in the same manner that you are being advised to do on here!
On the flip side, the dealer may not want to listen and fob you off at which point I would seek advice regarding your rights as a consumer, again plenty of good advice on here.
Either way, if it is the car you adore (whilst I appreciate it has taken the shine off ownership experience) and searched long and hard to find, get the bonnet resprayed by a reputable bodyshop, put it behind you and enjoy the car
(Getting rid, you would have to have it repaired anyway before selling and losing even more money, or trade it as it is, at an even bigger loss I would imagine! Now that for me is a lose/lose situation)