Ahhhh Mate,
Her towing prowess is something to behold.
I got 3 years of wood in one big load which certainly tested her. I noticed her temperature going up in heavy traffic with some hills thrown in for good measure, but she settled in beautifully on the motorway. I've done some vehicle towing with her and found that over and above IW trailers being amazing this wagon is born to tow. A/C on, cruise control set, and overtaking power still available when needed.
I'm actually more keen to sort the transmission TCU out but have been informed that a lot of the shifting issues seem to rectify themselves with the power increase.
As you said I'm going to go through her entire respiratory system first then up the ponies. The CHRA should be here in the next few days, I'm fitting a catch can as I believe the pcv is partly to blame for the turbo deterioration as well as the constant intake manifold gunge. Then egr resistor pack as per Dieselmans guidance. Then see how she feels. I think the swirl flaps can stay so long as the EGR and PCV aren't doing thier classic role of contaminating the entire intake manifold with crap but I may have convinced myself that they are OK mainly because the manifold removal process is going to burgle many hours of my life.