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I bought a set of E30 BMW BBS wheels a few months back, when they were stripped back they had a couple of cracks, the guy I bought them off on the E30 forum wouldn't have known so I put it down to one of those things.
I paid £250 for them, but they are 20 years old and one of those things, asking him for a refund never entered my mind.

I gave them away 2 weeks ago, he will repair the two cracks and get them refurbed for £250 and will have a mint set of wheels for the same price I paid for them knowing they needed refurbing too.

Order new if you want mint, simple as.
 
to refund or not

"Hi There

I am the guy Talbir has settled a dispute with over a set of faulty wheels. Let me just outline a couple of salient points from the outset, points that I feel are both reasonable and balanced.

Talbir I believe had no prior knowledge that the wheels were faulty.

I had neither mounted these wheels to my car or damaged them in any way. I
believe Talbir would concede this, ignoring, for the time being, the initial refurbishment
work carried out by Spit & Polish.

I am an ordinary consumer, I love cars (I have a 993 & W126, & have had a 190E 2.5-16 & a couple of other 911s) but I am not an expert and, believe it or not, this was the first set of wheels I have ever purchased.

What I am trying to establish is that there are two individuals here neither of whom are
crooked or trying to dupe each other.

I purchased the wheels, with some recommendation, when asked if anything needed doing to them all that was discussed were the tyres (worn out) and refurbishment. Talbir recommended Spit and Polish.

Timing
Bear in mind that we are saying the faults were virtually undetectable and only came to light once the refurbishment had commenced.

They were in my hallway for some time; partly due to the fact Spit & Polish (S&P) had some problems with their e- mail. The wheels were eventually picked up via the local tyre company they use as drop off points, they were then unable to contact me for again a few days. Eventually, I got a call from the tyre company saying the wheels were badly damaged and they hadn't been refurbed. The information was sketchy and second hand at this point. However I did feel the need to contact Talbir quickly as I wanted to get his view on this. At this point I thought we were only talking about cracks.

His view was that a repair could be made cheaply and safely via a welder. I then attempted to contact, through Yell, 3 aluminium welders to no avail - two of whom said too small a job or they didn't do wheels, not a great many but I did make some effort here.

Subsequently - I contacted the tyre company and S&P. The Tyre company said it would be very expensive to repair them as they were also warped. I contacted S&P, although I didn't get hold of the guy who rejected the job, they told me the condition was poor and not worth proceeding with. Remember my inclination here prior to this was to get them repaired - if it was £25 or £30 it would not have been a problem. I am not an expert and if S&P said not to proceed, well I pretty much take their advice. Having read the thread I gather this issue may have other interpretations as to why S&P would not advise proceeding with any repair. However their information persuaded me to ask for a refund on the wheels.

Condition
I have subsequently spoken to Dave at S&P, who said he does not mind being mentioned in this. The crack could be welded efficiently. The real issue with the wheels is that they are warped. He feels that to straighten the set (all 4 wheels are damaged) would lead to a risk of further cracking and would not be worth pursuing. I returned to Talbir with magic marker highlighting the areas S&P were concerned about. I am in no way knowledgeable enough to comment on the technical aspects of this but heed advice from a knowledgeable source and as a layman would feel obliged to trust it – also it would strike me as foolhardy to take a risk if there is a personal safety issue.

Photography
Let's get the facts straight here I had only very recently been asked for photography and within 24 hours mentioned as not supplying it. The wheels were not with me at this time, being still with the drop off company. Talbir neglects to mention I did offer to collect the wheels from the tyre co. & bring them around to his house so he could inspect them in person. Is that not reasonable?

Refund
Talbir's offer of a full refund for the wheels returned in the same condition they were sold in was not essentially a genuine offer. He already new the wheels were stripped for refurbishment and not in their original condition. PrPrandall51” I think that it is up to the purchaser to return the wheels to you so that you can see the damage for yourself. But, if they are genuinely cracked, then they are unuable (without proper repair) so the original finish is irrelevant; it would have to be stripped off to effect a proper repair.
I think you should insist the wheels are returned but accept that the original finish is now stripped off.”
makes a reasonable point here. In fact it was not really an offer unless I was expected to refurb them prior to returning them. Going back to my earlier point about possibly damaging them further, it would have been crazy to do so. Under these circumstances I do not think it was unreasonable to take them back in their partially refurbished state. At no point did Talbir hint at contributing for a welding repair – It was not until 14th October he mentioned any refund that had a basis in reality & for the sake of accuracy, he mentioned a partial refund.
Subject to Spit & Polishes advice welding was not even the answer.

Tone
This is the bit that worries me. I accept that Talbir is a good, honest bloke & have avoided making personal comments about him (or his friends.) He has not at any stage, however, expressed any regret for the situation I was in, nor adopted any conciliatory stance. His attitude throughout has been aggressive.

It is true there was a lot of heat in e-mails going back and forth from both parties. It riles me that this could have so easily been settled in a more grown up manner. Much of the heat was generated by Talbir completely misreading the tone of my initial email & immediately adopting a "how dare you" posture of outraged indignation. I am slightly aggrieved that also Talbir posted some of my E-mails on the thread, I wouldn't have done that without permission. Talbir to his credit did post some corrections re the warping etc but there are still some inaccuracies in his postings.

Talbir I am afraid your tone has continued. I went to your house on my own (my friends declined your kind invitation) within the agreed time and dropped your wheels off. I did say thanks, though apparently you may not have heard it. I also didn't count the money as I knew I could trust you.

Caveat Emptor
I feel that, emotions and anger apart, Talbir has acted worthily, if a little hysterically, here.

As a new member I am however amazed that a) many of you have adopted a "go take a hike approach" that although possibly legal (I am not an expert) is not a reasonable stance nor is it conducive to fair trade.

Nor did any of you hear my side of the story. You rushed to judgement after hearing only one side of the story. It is fair to say there may be some unscrupulous buyers out there but I'm not one of them. Should I just shrug my shoulders, say "it's just one of those things" and write off £300 spent on a set of irreparable wheels? Or for the sake of accuracy wheels that i would be advised not to repair.

What would you suggest for the future? Would it be reasonable in future that I should ask for an X-ray of a set of wheels prior to purchase? Or a warranty – slightly messy for the private seller perhaps? Or get a signed receipt saying the wheels are fit for the purpose sold? Perhaps I should have done.

Sure it makes sense to get a car professionally checked, which I did, prior to purchase, should you have to do it with wheels? Switches? Where would you draw the line?

What have I learnt from this? Not to trust in the condition of any goods I purchase, even from a recognised authority. Clearly I was mistaken to assume they are roadworthy unless otherwise described.
P.S.

To whoever posted the e-mail re my sourcing another set of Carat wheels. There were two sets of Carat Duchatelet wheels for sale on ebay. I'd bought one set (the one from a recognised expert who was closer to me by over 100 miles). That the seller's refurbisher had told me the repair was not worth pursuing. Bearing in mind I expected a refund it is not unreasonable to try to source some replacements? Your conspiracy theory is unfounded."

I have nothing more to say on the matter. Apart from Thanks Talbir



 

What would you suggest for the future? Would it be reasonable in future that I should ask for an X-ray of a set of wheels prior to purchase? Or a warranty – slightly messy for the private seller perhaps? Or get a signed receipt saying the wheels are fit for the purpose sold? Perhaps I should have done.

I think I have never heard anything like it. Unless you actually think any of those things are likely to happen in the real world or are fair, I suggest you never buy anything again unles brand new and has been through thre independent tests of the highest standard!

£300 on some used wheels and all this hot air. Good grief.
 
What would you suggest for the future? Would it be reasonable in future that I should ask for an X-ray of a set of wheels prior to purchase? Or a warranty – slightly messy for the private seller perhaps? Or get a signed receipt saying the wheels are fit for the purpose sold? Perhaps I should have done.

Sure it makes sense to get a car professionally checked, which I did, prior to purchase, should you have to do it with wheels? Switches? Where would you draw the line?

What have I learnt from this? Not to trust in the condition of any goods I purchase, even from a recognised authority. Clearly I was mistaken to assume they are roadworthy unless otherwise described.

Simple, dont buy used items! Especially items that have been out of production for many years!

Main dealer all the way, thats the lesson to be learnt.
 
Thanks for your side Spiersy...

I still think you have been very lucky to deal with someone such as Talbir.
Anyone else may not have been so obliging.

Buying any second hand item has a risk attached, especially buying privately.. You were unlucky, anyone else would have put it down to experience and moved on.

Like I say you were lucky to have got your money back here for something the seller could not have known about.

Anyway, I suggest you only buy new items going forward to save everyone a lot of time.
 
Buying any second hand item has a risk attached..... You were unlucky, anyone else would have put it down to experience and moved on.

Quite.

A few months ago I bought a spare set of wheels with tyres for the 500. They were not as described, the photographs blatently hid damage, the tyres didn't have the tread he said and they were mixed. When I tried to complain the guy was on holiday, by the time he responded properly I was out of time and neither Ebay nor Paypal would straighten him out. So I'm left with iffy tyres and wheels in serious need of a refurb.

I was unlucky, sh$t happens, life goes on.
 
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In addition to the thanks button, I would like to add that it is good to here from Spiersy. Nice to read an account from the other side too and only fair of course.

The fact people have a disagreement about what is right or wrong, at least you took the time to respond.
 
Spiersy, its good to see (eventually) your side of the story.

The reason everyone on here replied to Talbir's post is because he didnt have to give you a refund...... plus it didnt help you not posting your side of the story sooner. Its unfair to moan at us commenting on "one side of the story" when you didnt come to give yours.

IMHO you shouldnt have got a refund - you sure wouldnt have done from me. If i was in a good mood (buyer's methods of dealing with these things affect it, you know), i would probably have paid to get the wheel in question repaired..... but legally, i wouldnt have to.

You buy 2nd hand items, you take the risk. Talbir's auction was fine - they were 2nd hand wheels and therefore could be in any condition - it was up to YOU to check them out before you paid. Of course you need to take a risk when it comes to possible "unseen damage".... just part of buying privately.

Do you buy anything 2nd hand? - if the answer is "yes" then i suggest you refrain from doing so in future, to save your seller's a load of hassle.

Its a shame your 1st few posts on the forum have to be under these circumstances - it sounds like you have some nice Mercs there...
 
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But, as we have learned, these wheels were buckled to the point where Talbir's own recommended company suggested they were not useable.

I am in no way suggesting that Talbir sold the wheels knowing their condition, but the bottom line is that a wheel is a round thing and these were therefore misrepresented on Ebay - they simply weren't round.

Spiersy was right to seek a refund, just as Talbir was right and honourable enough to offer it. I'd like to see anybody here pay for wheels that turn out to be buckled and then just say "Buyer beware, oh well." All this rubbish about "just nbuy new from now on" is both misplaced and nausiatingly patronising.

And, at the end of the day, this thread has turned out to have sweet F.A to do with wheels - buckled or not - it has been an enlightening but depressing example of mob mentality. I am surprised it didn't end in a lynching.
 
Some may say that its up to the buyer to check that out before handing over the cash...

the thing that has got me, is the total expectation of getting a refund. The buyer appears to think he is entitled to one, but at the end of the day it is due to Tilbir's good-will that he has got one, but i am still unsure whether he really ackowleges that.
 
Its not about the wheels, it could have been a tea pot for all it matters... talbir did not have to give the money back, they are used wheels and wheels do get knocked about..

he did not advertise them as refurbished or offer any kind of warranty.

Everyone has different expectations when buying any thing used.. some expect to get something used, at used price, but want it to be new... the world just doesnt spin that way.

I deal with wheel refurbers on a daily basis. When the job is easy they are great to work with.. When they get a wheel that is slightly harder work, they cant generally be bothered... then out come the excuses... oh yes sir, your wheel is square and someone has drilled a hole through the middle...

The point of the matter is that Spiersy has been very lucky in getting his money back and should be a little more appreciative of the fact.
 
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Talbir I believe had no prior knowledge that the wheels were faulty.

I think anyone who believe's that i knew anything about the hairline crack that is a 35 pound repair is haing a laugh. There is no way that crack would have been visible to any human eye. Hence i described the item correctly, not falsely as you alleged.


Refund
It was not until 14th October he mentioned any refund that had a basis in reality & for the sake of accuracy, he mentioned a partial refund.
Subject to Spit & Polishes advice welding was not even the answer.

Do not lie - our emails are in this thread so do not make the mistake of lying. Read your first email to me asking me for a refund, and then read my immediate response offering that full refund. These two emails are in this thread - do you think everyone here is stupid ? To try and allege i di not offer a refund late in the day is a complete lie. Emails are here to prove it, try and lie and i'll post them up again.

Tone
This is the bit that worries me. I accept that Talbir is a good, honest bloke & have avoided making personal comments about him (or his friends.) He has not at any stage, however, expressed any regret for the situation I was in, nor adopted any conciliatory stance. His attitude throughout has been aggressive.

If you are going to be unreasonable with people, i.e. demanding refunds when you are not entitled to them, do not expect people to send you flowers. The majority of memebers her (>98%) deemed a refund request unreasonable.

It riles me that this could have so easily been settled in a more grown up manner.

Isthat why you emailed me to say ' me and my friends find you really dishonourable'....last time i heard that was in the playground when i was 7 years old !!!


Much of the heat was generated by Talbir completely misreading the tone of my initial email & immediately adopting a "how dare you" posture of outraged indignation. I am slightly aggrieved that also Talbir posted some of my E-mails on the thread, I wouldn't have done that without permission.


I did it to prove my honesty in this matter, you are riled and aggrieved because they highlighted the stupidity of the request for a refund.


Talbir I am afraid your tone has continued. I went to your house on my own (my friends declined your kind invitation) within the agreed time and dropped your wheels off. I did say thanks, though apparently you may not have heard it. I also didn't count the money as I knew I could trust you.

Well i don't trust you- you'll probably email me in a few weeks and say that some of the money notes i handed you were cracked and defaced and are not legal tender. Seriously, i am awaiting that email.


Caveat Emptor
I feel that, emotions and anger apart, Talbir has acted worthily, if a little hysterically, here.

As a new member I am however amazed that a) many of you have adopted a "go take a hike approach" that although possibly legal (I am not an expert) is not a reasonable stance nor is it conducive to fair trade.

Nor did any of you hear my side of the story. You rushed to judgement after hearing only one side of the story. It is fair to say there may be some unscrupulous buyers out there but I'm not one of them. Should I just shrug my shoulders, say "it's just one of those things" and write off £300 spent on a set of irreparable wheels? Or for the sake of accuracy wheels that i would be advised not to repair.

Incorrect, the wheels are repairable, infact it's a joke you did not get them repaired. Just wait til i post up the pictures of the highlighted issues and just wait til i post up pics of the refurbed items.

Cannot believe this posting, despite gettnig a refund when not deserved and legally was never going to happen, the chap is still aggrieved !

Especially the bit about saying thankyou - i was listening out for that word but i did not hear it, and the actions/body language did not reflect someone who was grateful.


talbir
 
to be honest,talbir could of just said " sorry mate,sold as seen,no refund" and that would be the end of it and spiersy couldn't have done anything about it...so credit to talbir

but after reading the whole thing and then reading spiersy's version,im kind of neutral now and i can really see where spiersy is coming from.
done and dusted shake hands and forget it,its only £300 at the end of the day.
 
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