thank you everyone for your imput..... after being able to find a little time to look over the car more today at work, and having it parked on the flat (i live on a very slight (but to steep for me to trust the manufacturers jack) hill, i jacked up the car to have a look at the bakes (i am no mechanic, but would be able to spot if the pads were worn out) the pads do seem ok (wear wise) but more alarmingly i noticed a not to unsubtanial puddle of oil, that i could see dripping from the car (rear of engine/front of gearbox) and the car had only ben parked for 40mins!!! and that excludes the small front of engine leak!!!
Got my brother to run a HPI check (as someone mentioned the odometer/tripometer could be a sign of clocking) it turned out to not show any signs of indescrepincy (although it was not a full whistle and bells HPI check) so i am keping an open mind regarding that (although having a flick through my 'FULL SERVICE HISTORY BOOK' it shows nothing from 1993 to 1998 (in which time the mileage had only risen by 7500miles and then nothing from 1999 to 2007 in which time the mileage is showing to have risen only an average of 2500 miles a year, the only other thing the HPI chech told was that the car used to be on quite a cool number plate 'TOY 99'
P.S. the actuall speedo works, its just the tripometer and odometer that have stopped working, and the ABS light is not on when the car is started.
so, to sum up..... the car does not start from cold properly, does not start from hot properly, the brakes grumble and squeal in town and dont stop the car at speed, there is a small oil leak from the front of the engine and a large one from the back and the tripometer and odometer have stopped working, all so shortly after buying the car and within less than 200 miles of ownership