Having worked in a body repair shop for too many years and subsequently as an insurance engineer, in my opinion your expectations are a little ambitious. In simple terms car insurance is provided to return your car to it's pre-accident condition or if costs exceed the value of the vehicle, reimbursement. Their responsibility to you is to repair and respray the damaged areas and not the rest of the vehicle, that would be your responsibility if you so chose, to polish or restore your 11 year old paint up to a standard you wish to see.
By your argument, if someone slightly dinged or scratched the very edge of your front wing, would you demand a full respray??