gIzzE
MB Enthusiast
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Well I too am shocked at some comments.
Clearly some selfish people here/ Of course 'banning' alcohol would seem impossible in our society but don't believe its not possible. Just because our wayward lax and hypocritical GovTs have done very nicely from the revenue's. But sadly its just our culture and a downward spiral, I'm afraid to say. Not because people do drink, but just because now its become so 'normal' and indemic with our culture.
And those that believe a few deaths a year is acceptable, well ?? Probably without any family or loved ones to even consider losing them through a drunk driver.
Of course there are risks in all walks of life, and yes you could easily die from someone playing with a sat nav to picking there nose behind a wheel.
But put a selfish self-centred arrogant person behind the wheel after a few drinks(because that's what anyone who drives a car after taking any drug is) and its 'when' not if someone will die.
And for those that dont know or have yet to deal with someone alcohol dependant
You can tell they have 'crossed the line' when they become overtly aggressive for any trivial excuse, they will find ANY excuse to have a drink. And are very defensive for the right to. Often the phrase 'it's normal, acceptable, everyone does it' will be made to justify having a drink. What ever day of the week or reason, a drink MUST be had at some time. Although some can go without for a week or even a fortnight. All manor of excuses will prompt it. And if they cant have it woe betide anyone in their way. Of course they will suffer neglect, ultimately financial loss, usually following losing a job, and then their home and family. And of course the longer a person (enabler) partner/wife/ mother continues paying / supporting or covering up the damage caused, the longer and worse it gets.
Of course its quite normal - but why ?
Its not the old tramp with a bottle in a brown paper bag anymore that's the alcoholic or alcohol dependant. It's the respectable guy / gal, queuing in onestop at 8.30am buying a four pack or bottle of wine or cider with the morning paper. Have a look next time your in there. I used to drink, sometimes a lot and in (many) days gone by I actually rode a motorbike while absolutely plastered. I have absolutely no idea how, and thankfully without ever an incident. But I don't anymore, and that's after 'other' experiences I've had I now wouldnt ever want to. I've just seen what alcohol dependency does to people. And more to the point I dont need to. For many years now I found I dont have the insecurities that I had that I felt the need to get drunk or even have a drink when going out. I have been dancing, clubbing, bbq's have many friends, have a damn good laugh and when Im in a pub or restaurant mostly, for a meal I have one of my five a day in liquid form or I take great pleasure asking for a cup of tea. Why not. I honestly dont 'need' to drink anymore and dont feel I need to or feel pressured to.
Of course if I'm truthful, the biggest 'problem' I face sitting in a british pub and not being drunk is the boredom when everyone else is!
But then I just think of vast 'tax' Im no longer handing over and often im more relaxed, happy and enjoy myself than my drunk mates.
Of course the down side is Im the one always driving, but then at least I know it's one less drink driver on the roads.
The guy down the road beat the **** out of his wife and kid, and said it was because he was stressed at work, we should ban work.
One of my best mates at school has been inside for the last 10 years because of football hooliganism.
We should ban football.
Have you considered moving to country where alcohol is banned? Many of those countries are like a paradise because their is no alcohol, so laid back, especially for your wife.
My mate was an alcoholic big time, he was a complete ******** when drunk, he has been sober for 5 years now, and for the last 5 years he has still been an ********, the only difference is he is now a self righteous boring ********.