Hi,
Having never experienced any problem getting the bulbs for my car therefore I can only presume I have the wrong wattage in mine, if your experience is anything to go by, and I have never had an issue with spurious bulb failure warning.
When you get the warning lamp up, check at which point it comes on, is it the first turn of the switch in which case it will either be front or rear side lights, second click dipped beam, then foot on the brake pedal, brake lights.
Something that threw me was that my car had 2 rear side lights each side, and what you think is the brake light (dual filament jobby) is not, its best to check with the bulb holders out of the light cluster and get someone to operate the light functions individually.
Sorry if this sounds like i,m teaching you to suck eggs, but it was,nt my intention.