I have my own business. Last tax year paid over 450k in taxes.
What i actually earn is a smaller percentage of this.
I live in a smaller house than my parents who bought it in 70s when my dad was on a sales rep wages. He is not much more than that now. Their house is est value of around 500k.
i pay around 2.5k a month in morgages to have alot lower grade house than that.
I earn far more than my mum and dad ever did comparitive but i have far less.
I do far less things. Every car ive bought has been old ie over 10 years old. My dad bought a newish car every 2-3 years, go on holiday about every 3 years.
My parents say the that it alot harder now and standard of living is worst, yes all the things you mentioned sound bad, thats because technology has improved. No offense but i remeber in 1994 my dad walking into curries and buying for £2,300 pounds a crt 28 inch colour tv and a video/dvd player lol. You could get the same thing now for about £250 new. My dad also told me in in 1980s he bougt a video recorder for £850.
I dont mean to say everthing was easy for you. All im saying is risk/reward what you put in what you get out equation is not the same now as it was. I also think its alot worst for someone who is 18 now than it ever was for me, i can see that. Even though i had a crappy pc with 2mb of ram in 1995 it still cost £600 which today would buy you adjusted a very good computer indeed, i paid £30 per week student rent, paid no tuition fees, went out and had a good time compare it to an 18 year old now.
I am assuming you were on an average wage when you first bought your house and did what you did. All i am saying is the person today doing your job, could he do what you did today what you did back then? Buy your house? Go on as many holidays and eat out as much as you did i dont know the number or the facts but only you could answer that.