Where is your conclusive evidence of such a statement?
Without conclusive evidence present, one has to use engineering knowledge. If you have some other theory, please enlighten us.
There are, I think, 2 ways of looking at this:
1) Assuming selecting N disengages the mct wet clutch (as in a manual car):
According to MB themselves the MCT wet clutch is designed to coast in neutral (ie like pressing the clutch pedal at speed):
"When the driver releases the accelerator in a speed range between 37 and 99 mph, the clutch of the MCT transmission opens and the engine is decoupled from the powertrain."
Would coasting (which it is designed to do) and revving the engine damage a disengaged clutch? Well, unless this one always drags significantly, no. (But I can't say I'd ignore MB advice not to!) Plus I am under the impression the mct clutch allows the engine to blip on down shifts too (ie rev with clutch disengaged as the op apparently has).
Other view:
2) Shifting into N disengages the automatic transmission clutch pack (as in a normal auto):
In this case as a normal auto is shifted into N it also disengages a wet clutch pack but not the torque converter (in place of the clutch). This is one reason it is advised to keep a car in D when stopped temporarily. Some think this is because the clutch is wearing in N due to drag but that's not really true. The bulk of the wear occurs when moving back into D, i.e two shafts with a speed of 800 rpm and 0 rpm have to be dragged (by the wet clutch) up to speed, and that's a wear process. Also, when you think about it, nobody says you cannot rev the engine in neutral.
Anyway, I don't think either of those two scenarios above would cause this damage.
So, would repeated hard acceleration with clutch sliding be far more likely to damage it? Yes: any manual clutch will wear far more quickly (and break) if abused - the mct design flaw imho is that the wearing knackered mct wet clutch then sends its wear debris circulating through the standard automatic transmission and so fecks that too. Torque converters are much more robust to launch control kind of treatment because there is no physical connection between the input and output side, only fluid pressure.