Hi Jcombzy, firstly and most importantly, it's good to hear that nobody was hurt and everyone left the scene without a mark. Your story is quiet disturbing, I can't imagine what was going through your mind during the incident.
Secondly, may I ask why you were charged for the work on rim replacement, two tyres, pads etc? Wasn't your car still under warranty?
Looking at your photos, I've never seen a wheel split like that from an accident as you describe, looks pretty shocking. Was that particular tyre holding tyre pressure/did it have a slow puncture?
Alloy wheels are usually manufactured by casting. The molten metal is poured into a cavity which then sets and forms your alloy.
Look closely at where it has split and try and see if the atomic structure of the alloy is powdered/porous/has any voids? If you can see any of those things then you may well have a strong case. If you can afford it, then I would try to get that wheel X-rayed which will certainly provide conclusive evidence of any voids.
After hearing some of the stories on here, I am now, not surprised with the response and service you've had from MB. They will be most interested in protecting the image of their shitty 'high class/status' brand and will lie to protect it. I just hope they haven't altered any of the evidence.
Anyway, all the worms will crawl out the woodwork and start having a go for talking bad about MB. I better stop..
If you want to avoid these problems in the future, then buy a Japanese car. Last year they dominated on reliability index, like they have always done tbf. Mercedes came in at 23rd place (same level of reliability as a Fiat), I'll let that speak for itself.
But some of us would rather buy a car with high class (whatever that is) then high reliability.
Japanese brands dominate car reliability survey