right : update and thanks everyone
Since yesterday all leaking has stopped but there are creamish deposits down the left side of the engine under the exhaust manifold(do not know how long they have been there).
The first garage said head gasket (not a specialist)
the next specialist said come back in 3wks too busy, and the last specialist when i said do a compression test, said he can see from experience that the gasket is said bust, so i am waiting to be completely sure before i even consider going ahead .
Price ranges from £350-650 and 3- 4 days
As my own garage does not open on saturday ( too comfortable perhaps)
i shall take it there on monday and if it is the gasket then i shall consider my options.
car worth about 2k and will require new oil and coolant plus chain and whatever else.
all filler caps still clear so maybe we might just drive it into the ground until it stops then.
as i see it, it could be a cracked manifold/ head/ block and not the gasket so until something definite happens, who knows