I have only spun one car in the last 20 years. It was on track not the road and it was an Audi A6 Quattro....
That includes lots of miles in some very powerful development cars.
I think the perceived security of 4WD can lead you into a false sense of security. I quite often get on the ABS in 4WD cars and seldom in a 2WD because the traction of 4WD leads me to believe there is more longitudinal grip.