I appreciate your views Jepho, but wonder what sort of motorways you drive on.
M6, M1, M25, M4 M23, M18, M180 are typical.
Much of your ideal advice is fine and straight from the textbooks. But on the Midlands motorways at rush hour, for example, you simply could not do what you advise. Lorries convoy in the first and second lane FOR MILES. Finding that elusive gap is the challenge we all have to deal with, and of course we usually do with careful driving.
Perhaps I should ask which roads are you driving on.
In congested motorway situations, it is too simplistic to say that you overtake, you pull in, you overtake, you pull in, etc, etc.
It's impossible in my view.
my emphasis: Yes, it is impossible so all you can do is to keep the gap in front of you. Where you are staying the in the overtaking lane because of two lanes of HGV traffic, you can be sure that no one will move into your space. any cars that do so from the centre lane should be a signal for you to slow and open the space again. Your only duty to yourself is to get where you are going in one piece. Your duty to your fellow road users is to try to keep them safe too.
If you took that driving policy to its logical conclusion, everyone would end up in the first lane behind slow traffic, unable to get out. It just doesn't happen.
This doesn't happen and we don't see it... not because you are right but because the traffic flow is such that there is always the space you need. You can use some acceleration to get in front of a slowing truck on a hill, for example.
Your tip on space is fine. I always dutifully aim for two chevrons ahead of me but my care is quickly frustrated by other drivers moving out into the space, and halving it a stroke!
I have no idea what two chevrons looks like as a unit of measure but I can judge car lengths. In my estimation, events can unfold rather quickly at speed. When you add reaction times to the mix, you may find that 2 chevrons is insufficient space. I will open that gap in the rain, for example. Nothing about my driving is slavish and fixed, for that way lies madness. when the space I deem to be my safety margin is closed, I will open it again by slowing down. It works for me and I am not a specialist driver so I have sufficient cause to believe that it will work for every driver.
Your coffee tip is also great, but again, are we talking about the real world? We would all get nowhere fast - but could the service stations cope?? lol...
Is this the same real world which wants everybody in work at 9.00am? I choose which hours I travel and having chosen to drive, I accept that it mandates new behaviours from drivers. I can no longer drive with the same expectations I had during the 1960s.
I am not trying to be censorious or holier than thou here. I am saying that my safety (and the safety of other road users, which ultimately impinges on my own safety) is my only concern here.