Will
Sometimes a big hammer must be used in the debate when the customer is wronged in order to achieve the best possible outcome.
That hammer may be an unrealistic demand but will always be based on sound logic.
The customer should not give a hoot about what the financial burden to the dealership is if they are wronged.
I had a situation with a brand new VW Golf that was 6 weeks old. Developed a fault in the audio system (later discovered to be a defective earth in a section of the wiring) but whilst it was on the garage floor with the dashboard in bits the tailgate was drilled to fix a spoiler that was destined for another car.
Now, I did not want the spoiler and actually decided against it when I ordered the car. The salesman verified this.
What would you accept as a resolve if this was your new car ?
Spoiler ?
Repair ?
New tailgate ?
New car ?
I appreciate your point, and understand exactly how it feels having had similar experiences in my lifetime too. But we're all humans and we all make mistakes from time to time - providing that the thread is ok or repaired properly it will be fine.
In answer to your question about your car - I guess realistically:
Option 1 is out - you didn't want the spoiler
Option 2 is possible, but not all that likely
Option 3 sounds the most realistic
Option 4 sounds a little OTT
I'd expect option 3 plus some goodwill from the dealer perhaps (maybe a free first service in light of the tailgate issue and the warranty problem with the stereo wiring)
What would have happened if someone bumped your car as you left the dealership? I'd be surprised if they wrote the car off because of a damaged tailgate.
Accidents/mistakes sometimes happen, and we need to be realistic at times. What goes around comes around and all that
The world would grind to a halt if we all stuck our heels in with unrealistic demands after simple mistakes!