What Have You Done To Your Merc Today?

[TrueSpirit]

Bit of soapy story.... while in progress of splitting up with my kids mum. Been told, how sh.t I am, and not deserve to be a dad.
Ones again took my little prides for a ride/walk, while she wasn't bothered to ask about kids since Friday.
Loved each second of it.... specially seeing their smile
And we had a little break, middle of nowhere....

All day in the comfort of safety, delivered by our beast

Not soapy at all. Sorry to hear this
What's the world coming to, my parent's generation were so different. There was respect from my aunts to my uncles and my mother to my father. In this day and age, society is fast crumbling.
I've seen solicitors in the legal profession start making up lies of being abused to get better divorce settlements from their husbands and so many shady practices. It's truly disgusting. Please consider recording all your interactions with her even if it is voice calls. The first thing their divorce lawyers do is encourage them to do this. Just saying I've seen it multiple times from supposed respectable professional women. People that I've known. If your ex is using such language then I fear she won't attempt to be fair and honourable

Glad you enjoyed your time with your kids in the beast !

 

[PolishGeorge85]

Not soapy at all. Sorry to hear this
What's the world coming to, my parent's generation were so different. There was respect from my aunts to my uncles and my mother to my father. In this day and age, society is fast crumbling.
I've seen solicitors in the legal profession start making up lies of being abused to get better divorce settlements from their husbands and so many shady practices. It's truly disgusting. Please consider recording all your interactions with her even if it is voice calls. The first thing their divorce lawyers do is encourage them to do this. Just saying I've seen it multiple times from supposed respectable professional women. People that I've known. If your ex is using such language then I fear she won't attempt to be fair and honourable

Glad you enjoyed your time with your kids in the beast !

Thank you, wasn't expecting such a reply

 

[D2028]

Bit of soapy story.... while in progress of splitting up with my kids mum. Been told, how sh.t I am, and not deserve to be a dad.
Ones again took my little prides for a ride/walk, while she wasn't bothered to ask about kids since Friday.
Loved each second of it.... specially seeing their smile
And we had a little break, middle of nowhere....

All day in the comfort of safety, delivered by our beast

You have my sympathy, I've just been through the same and through my ex's actions I have been alienated from my only child. I haven't seen or heard from her for 4 years now. The law still sides with the mother at all times.

 

[Londonscottish]

I cleaned the inside of the screen. Took three goes to get all the stuff off. Was great driving up the M1 to Leeds in bright sunshine with a crystal clear screen.

Also, the last time I did any distance was in France in a Pug 3008 hire car. That was a pretty awful wobble box on stilts. So much nicer to drive a properly engineered car with nicely weighted controls. The E's steering at speed feels meaty and firm; the Pug's felt like it was from an arcade game. Also the throttle and brakes feel much more linear. No turbo lag, no over-assisted brakes. Just properly done.

 

[Bobby Dazzler]

Trip to Hunstanton old town, walk on the beach, pasty and coffee at the cafe, nice drive back!

Did you call in to the Spice Museum?

 

[ToeKnee]

Did you call in to the Spice Museum?

Never heard of it? Can't find anything about it online either? Have you been??

 

[Trickythemerc]

Promised it an oil and filter, but its raining,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Now that is surprising

 

[TrueSpirit]

You have my sympathy, I've just been through the same and through my ex's actions I have been alienated from my only child. I haven't seen or heard from her for 4 years now. The law still sides with the mother at all times.

All too common. My best friend had to shell out over gbp80k on his divorce case to get joint custody and fight the false abuse charges. His ex wife, a lawyer, made various false charges of abuse against him but unbeknown to her, he had video evidence to refute each lie and as expected, no punishment for her for her behaviour after being caught out.


On another note, my car just hit 40,000 miles today. Got it with around 15k miles on the clock and have had 3 years of ownership with it. I tend to appreciate it more when I drive other cars for a while and then get back behind the wheel.

 

[OneForTheRoad]

One day this week. Jobbing on ...

 

[Bobby Dazzler]

Never heard of it? Can't find anything about it online either? Have you been??

My mistake the Spuce Museum is in Longstanton

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[ToeKnee]

My mistake the Spuce Museum is in Longstanton

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I came across that on Google, glad I'm not going mental by not finding the infamous Hunstanton spice museum

 

[Slartibartfast]

Nice day for a "wash & vac"

 

[NickW205C63]

Nice day for a "wash & vac"

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Beautiful machine

 

[PolishGeorge85]

You have my sympathy, I've just been through the same and through my ex's actions I have been alienated from my only child. I haven't seen or heard from her for 4 years now. The law still sides with the mother at all times.

Man, my head is about to explode reading your answers. You are strong person, and I believe have good support. I hope I won't have to go through situation like yours. Can't imagine not seeing 3 often annoying creatures (1-step, 2-mine). What worries me,is last part of your reply. No matter how good dad's are, they seems to be blamed for everything.
Keep fighting my friend, one day.... you'll smile like never before.



Top man

 

[OneForTheRoad]

Rears discs n pads changed on the GLC coupe. £133 diy instead of £577 at mb . Good result.

 

[PolishGeorge85]

Not soapy at all. Sorry to hear this
What's the world coming to, my parent's generation were so different. There was respect from my aunts to my uncles and my mother to my father. In this day and age, society is fast crumbling.
I've seen solicitors in the legal profession start making up lies of being abused to get better divorce settlements from their husbands and so many shady practices. It's truly disgusting. Please consider recording all your interactions with her even if it is voice calls. The first thing their divorce lawyers do is encourage them to do this. Just saying I've seen it multiple times from supposed respectable professional women. People that I've known. If your ex is using such language then I fear she won't attempt to be fair and honourable

Glad you enjoyed your time with your kids in the beast !

I never thought, joining this forum, I'll touch such a subject. But, he we are . Thanks for your reply. I have got one worry.
Years ago, I've noticed my Mrs started to change. Doing absolutely nothing at home, drinking from first minute she woke up.
I had chat with her family, but no support. Apparently, is what it is. This followed, accusations that only me knew were not only not true, but sometimes unbelievable. This lasted for few years of arguments and me trying to prove something I haven't done which often was very difficult.

Anyway...two years ago we decided, to split up for kids benefit. Obviously, no arguments at the front of them. Six months later, my Mrs ended up in psychiatric hospital. And what I found bizarre, that only person she wanted to see or help her was me... ... Which I did.

Two years on, I feel like trapped inside her happy bubble.
Only good days are, when I do exactly how she says. I'm picking kids every day after 8hr work. While she's home on sofa, pointlessly scrolling through Facebook. Nothing done in her house, nothing cooked, am I expecting too much. She does 16hr a week job.

Recently, I got to point where I have to think about myself, even more my kids. If I'm there, I get "tortured". When I'm not my step daughter seems to be a target, and then my daughter and son.

She has been diagnosed with something but never told us what. What I know, she's on medication for major bipolar or schizophrenia.

I did record her and thought I had evidence to at least prove to her family what's happening, I was only shocked when every single member slaged me of for doing it. So deleted it.
Than, I believe her uncle rang me and said that I could go to court for recording her. What stopped me from doing it anymore.

Ones again, sorry for long maybe even longest post on here

Can I record her , without telling her that I'm doing it. Or should I just/at least one time inform her about it.
According to her "knowledge" I can't and even if I do, it'll mean nothing wherever I would want to use it.

Thanks for reading, and replying.

 

[OneForTheRoad]

Promised it an oil and filter, but its raining,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Now that is surprising

Cloud seeding ?

 

[D2028]

I never thought, joining this forum, I'll touch such a subject. But, he we are . Thanks for your reply. I have got one worry.
Years ago, I've noticed my Mrs started to change. Doing absolutely nothing at home, drinking from first minute she woke up.
I had chat with her family, but no support. Apparently, is what it is. This followed, accusations that only me knew were not only not true, but sometimes unbelievable. This lasted for few years of arguments and me trying to prove something I haven't done which often was very difficult.

Anyway...two years ago we decided, to split up for kids benefit. Obviously, no arguments at the front of them. Six months later, my Mrs ended up in psychiatric hospital. And what I found bizarre, that only person she wanted to see or help her was me... ... Which I did.

Two years on, I feel like trapped inside her happy bubble.
Only good days are, when I do exactly how she says. I'm picking kids every day after 8hr work. While she's home on sofa, pointlessly scrolling through Facebook. Nothing done in her house, nothing cooked, am I expecting too much. She does 16hr a week job.

Recently, I got to point where I have to think about myself, even more my kids. If I'm there, I get "tortured". When I'm not my step daughter seems to be a target, and then my daughter and son.

She has been diagnosed with something but never told us what. What I know, she's on medication for major bipolar or schizophrenia.

I did record her and thought I had evidence to at least prove to her family what's happening, I was only shocked when every single member slaged me of for doing it. So deleted it.
Than, I believe her uncle rang me and said that I could go to court for recording her. What stopped me from doing it anymore.

Ones again, sorry for long maybe even longest post on here

Can I record her , without telling her that I'm doing it. Or should I just/at least one time inform her about it.
According to her "knowledge" I can't and even if I do, it'll mean nothing wherever I would want to use it.

Thanks for reading, and replying.

You can record without permission to counteract false accusations. There was a documentary on telly recently where a battered husband used footage from a babycam/ monitor to prove his wife was physically and mentally abusing him. It is worth a watch if you can find it. A real eye-opener .

 

[PolishGeorge85]

You can record without permission to counteract false accusations. There was a documentary on telly recently where a battered husband used footage from a babycam/ monitor to prove his wife was physically and mentally abusing him. It is worth a watch if you can find it. A real eye-opener .

my wife my abuser...... watched 10min of it (not because it wasn't interesting), but I do know what he went through. Crazy, this thing are happening.

 

[TrueSpirit]

my wife my abuser...... watched 10min of it (not because it wasn't interesting), but I do know what he went through. Crazy, this thing are happening.

We should set up a thread in off topic section to discuss this. Statistics etc may surprise ...
And also how family members facilitate such behavior from people and attack the real victim and gaslight them. Rather than accepting the behaviour is happening that they see on a recording , they chaff and redirect and make you the perpetrator