Update, this morning after pairing I had to restart the phone, Bluetooth (version 3.0) on samsung N7000 galaxy note prompted for:
SAP service - SIM access profile - allows the Comand inbuilt GSM transeiver to connect to a SIM card in a Bluetooth enabled phone
OPP service - object push profile - allows client push of objects such as pictures or v-cards from phone to Comand
Pbap service - phone book access profile - allows phone book information to be read from phone by Comand
MAP service - message access profile - allows texts to be sent from phone and received by Comand
I confirmed all on the phone, and voila, after not quite a minute a text came through, and then an option to read text aloud - which works (in PR4L voice no less!)
If I then Bluetooth tether the phone, it is possible (when stationary) to access the internet, and thus google, email, etc.